I’m different to my family (25.08.17)

My family deny and against to me.

When I told them I have plan to get my job in beauty industry, my parents blame to me that ‘Do you know I paid for your college tuition to do this?’.

And then, my mother kept recommending me another jobs.

Teach foreigners Korean, 

Why don’t you open a cafe specializing in delivery in Korea?

Can’t you work as an office worker in Canada?

Why do you want to work as a hairstylist who has lowly fate?

Do you want to touch someone’s dirty hair?

I considered deeply in order to how to survive in Canada.

The answer to the above question is beauty industry like nail technician or hairdresser.

But my family NEVER know that how I deeply considered and thought about this problem.

Even my younger sister recommended me to open a cafe providing only delivery service in Korea.

She told me that she can make my cafe’s brand identity.

But, her expression hurt me.

I thought that statement was something ignoring me.

I can make my own brand myself.

I didn’t tell her to help me.

I felt her statement seems like underestimating me. 

Because of these difference of value, we finally had an argument.

She told me she don’t want to talk to me anymore forever. 

My family don’t help to me.

They don’t have interesting about why I want to leave Korea, why I want to learn beauty skills.

Since I decide to go to Canada, my family’s values are clearly visible.

They are walking to different path.

But I will walk my own way silently.